
Today I am on the tour for Things We Do For Love by Vered Neta, thank you to Rachel at Rachel’s Random Resources for organising it and inviting me to take part and thank you to the publisher and the author for my copy.

Pages: 264
Synopsis: Daisy Bach, a therapist, has always been certain that she did not want to have children. Her childhood experiences with an overbearing and controlling mother, Verity, who tore the family apart, further cemented this decision. However, at the age of forty-five, Daisy finds herself reconsidering this choice. Unfortunately, her decision to try and conceive is complicated by her mother’s diagnosis of Alzheimer’s disease. With strained family relationships, Daisy faces the daunting task of caring for her elderly parents while also attempting to conceive. As she navigates this challenging time, Daisy is forced to confront her deep-seated resentment towards Verity. This journey leads her to re-evaluate her beliefs about motherhood, forgiveness, and the true meaning of a “happy” family. Will Daisy find a way to reconcile with her past and make peace with her present? Only time will tell.
My Rating: 🐧🐧🐧🐧
My Thoughts: this book broke my heart into a million little pieces and then put it back together again.
Oh the emotions I felt, I don’t think I was quite prepared for it!
We’re following 3 sisters, Daisy, Heather and Iris, they’re organising an 80th birthday party for their dad Sol, when they all get together you see the past rear it’s ugly head.. nothing quite like sibling resentment..
We soon learn that they’re all going through their own struggles, some a lot deeper than others but yet all dealt with with the same sensitivity.
A very real representation of a family, nobody is perfect and they all take very different things away from the same childhood.
It’s a story that makes you be realise the fragility of life and how quickly it can all be taken away.
I lost my dad last year, very unexpectedly so found that I needed to put the book down, step away and collect myself more than once, I cried proper ugly tears, I smiled and found myself wanting to shake the characters or a regular basis and show them that in the grand scheme of things the aspect they’re focussing on isn’t that important.
There was a paragraph that has stuck with me, it’s not often I highlight things. But I physically felt this one. So I’ll leave you with it.. just know I wholeheartedly recommend that you read this book!
“I feel as if the world has turned upside down, and I’m spinning without a point of reference in the world. It’s as if I lost my North Pole and am lost in the universe.”
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