
Today is my stop on the blog tour for She’s Back by Lisa Unwin and Deb Khan and o have an extract for you, thank you to Kelly at Love Books for organising it and inviting me to be a part of it.

Synopsis: Women’s careers twist and turn. Women step back or step away for so many reasons. Then, let’s face it, returning is tough.
Whether you are coming back after a break, or looking to ramp up a level, this book is an essential guide and helps you succeed.
You’ll learn the truth about how the recruitment market really works; how to craft a narrative that explains your value; mobilise a network to support your ambitions and find work that will work for you.
Examples of real women’s struggles and winning strategies provide inspiration and will enthuse you about how to make your own comeback.
Lisa and Deb draw on years of research across several different sectors and their experience of working with and listening to the stories of thousands of women to provide a fresh, pragmatic and above all useful handbook for today’s fast evolving job market.
In a world of #MeToo and Time’s Up, She’s Back. And so are you.
Extract: WHAT TO SAY ABOUT A CAREER BREAK
Like much of the country, we’ve been absorbed, enraptured and enveloped by the BBC’s glorious adaptation of War and Peace. And Tolstoy’s lines made us think about how people currently deal with career breaks.
“We imagine that when we are thrown out of our usual ruts, all is lost. But it is only then that what is new and good begins. While there is life there is happiness. There is much, much before us.”
Career breaks are a little bit like the war. “Don’t mention it.” Professional guidance from recruiters advise us to skip over the break. We think this is profoundly misguided. To skip over a career break is to collude with the myth that nothing useful happens outside of work.
That could not be further from the truth. In an age where, assuming we start work at, say 21 or 22, we all face a working life of upwards of 40 years who isn’t going to need a break at some point. It could be because of children, to go travelling, to look after elderly relatives or simply to recharge your batteries. It will happen to more and more of us.
So take a lead. Change the conversation. Signpost the new, shinier improved you without apology or qualification.
So what do you say?
1. I’m refreshed, re-energised and re-focused. Who isn’t better after a break? And when you decide to return, and have put in place the childcare and support to make it work, any new employer can be sure you are 100% committed. With something to prove and fire in your belly to prove it.
2. I am so much more productive. Minus a salary and the suffocating bureaucracy inherent in most large organisations, we tend to become slicker, speedier. Less time to faff If you’ve been juggling other people’s needs with your own, carrying four timetables in your head, you are more efficient. Guaranteed.
3. I’ve broadened my skills, knowledge and experience. Smash the myth that you turned off that busy brain. You still read, absorbed, thought and contributed. You knew what was happening in the world and in the world of work. You didn’t check out. Be specific about what skills you have now, give examples of how you developed them. Add what do you know now that you didn’t know before?
4. I’ve grown and deepened my network. I have more references and a wider range of organisations, people and situations to call upon, ask, tell things to or reference. Institutions can make us myopic. You’ve seen more than what is in these four walls.
5. I’ve witnessed – and can share – different ways of getting things done. Things we can learn from. That’s healthy. Leadership styles and ways of delivering are all around us – schools, hospitals, retail, travel. You’ve embraced other forms of comms, identified what works – and what doesn’t.
6. I have new perspectives on customers and clients. You have more insight because you’ve been out there more, interacting with the world as a consumer or creator or been on the receiving end of services. You know how it feels and how it could be improved. You have acquired those elusive empathy skills, by osmosis.
7. You can trust me. I have delivered without the comfort blanket of a large organisation. I’ve dealt with my own IT, sussed out the fastest ISP, I’ve navigated the complexities of new technology tools or systems. I’ve learned independently. I’ve set my own milestones and frameworks for projects or travel or to help other people.
And finally – dare we say it. You are older. With less time to waste. Life is speeding up, as are you.
Back these up with examples. What was “ new and good” in your break? Help an employer understand. Be brief. Be brave. Know your own value. And negotiate the hell out of your return.
If you like the should of this book you can buy it here.
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